Monday, November 28, 2016

Work-Life Balance… Or is it Work-Life Balancing Act?

               This week I learned a lot about priorities and my work-life balance.  I heard from entrepreneur, Randy Komisar in one video saying that as a CEO work-life balance doesn’t work, and I heard in another video by Meg Cadoux Hirshberg that you have to work hard at maintaining a balance, and yet another from Corey Bell where he just built the business to reflect his own values.  The real trick is that it all comes down to you in the end.
               The word ‘balance’ implies that we have to have both sides in equilibrium.  This doesn’t mean that it has to be 50-50, but it can’t be fluctuating randomly however it wants.  Many of us don’t like talking and thinking about money much less the way it effects our family, but in this article by Stephen Gibson he says, “No matter who we are or what we are doing in life, money is a necessary part of it.”  We need to decide what balance we want in our lives and compare that with what lifestyle we want to lead.  Gibson says that it’s all about how we see money, how we get it, and what we do with it.  Gibson claims that “Money has great power” but he also states “money in and of itself is neither good nor evil.”  As responsible adults we can choose if money and therefor work is our master or our servant.  “Money can make good men better, but on the other hand it usually makes bad men worse.”

               In the end we need to work.  That is a fact of life.  If we don’t work we won’t survive, and if we do it will be at the detriment of others.  We need money to take care of our families, and that takes time and effort, some of which may come out of time and effort that we need for our families.  We need to make a decision on what that balance is going to be taking into account our family situation, our desired style of living and our physical needs.  Again, it does not have to be a perfect 50-50 balance, but it does have to balance in equilibrium, and that’s up to each of us to discover for ourselves and our families.

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